Do you suspect that your partner might be having an affair? It could be that you’re being too suspicious and insecure, or it could be that you’re correct and your wife or husband is indeed cheating on you.

There are a few telltale signs that your partner is cheating on you. For example, if your partner has suddenly put their mobile phone on silent, when they don’t normally do that, there could be a good reason. Perhaps they’re expecting to receive calls and text messages and they don’t want you to know about it? If their phone keeps going off with messages all night, you’d rightly be suspicious, but if it’s on silent, ask yourself why!

Another telltale sign is that they’ve got a new watch, jewellery or some other thing that they wouldn’t normally buy themselves. Perhaps they’ve claimed that they’ve had some business gifts, or they’ve decided to treat themselves, but has someone else bought it for them?

Also, are they acting aloof at all? Are they not around when you’d expect them to be, and are un-contactable by phone? It could be that they’re with someone else.

You shouldn’t always be suspicious of your partner, but sometimes your suspicions are correct.

Clive Bellmore